Little One, you ask for guidance, yet you already have clarity. You are just unwilling to accept that you may be correct in your assessment of the circumstances. You have set your friend up in a role that is not realistic and you have attributed to her qualities that she has not yet attained. Allow her imperfection and love her through this difficult period.
How much do you love her? Do you love her enough to tell her the truth? Remember our teachings to you: If your relationship cannot hold the truth, then the relationship is a lie. Be gentle, Little One, with yourself as well as with your friend. She needs your honesty and compassion. She needs your sweet light now, as this is a trying time for her and her family.
Observe the dance of light and shadow. Do you see how interchangeable they are? Do you see that they are, in fact, the same thing? There is blessing for everyone in this lesson. Come back to your heartspace. Be grateful for the blessings that you have to share. Use this as an opportunity to observe how intimacy has grown in your own life in all of your relationships. Seek peace. Be peace.
I know that you fear becoming judgmental. Remember that there are differences between judgment and observation, non judgment and blindness, right action and cowardice. Speak the truth with loving-kindness, yet speak it. Your truth is your strength. When you speak from an open heart, judgment is impossible.
Be love. Be loved. Beloved.
